NORTHSHORE CHURCH OF CHRIST

Among David’s three chief mighty men stood Shammah, the son of Agee the Hararite. The Philistines gathered together at Lehi, where there was a plot of ground full of lentils, and the Israelites fled from the Philistines. But Shammah took his stand in the midst of the plot and defended it and struck down the Philistines, and the Lord worked a great victory. (2 Samuel 23.11–12).

When I travel from one big city to another, I’m struck by the sheer numbers of individuals and families. They are everywhere! And each one has a lifetime of stories and struggles, dreads and dreams, loves and losses. It’s mind-boggling for a finite human like me. I cannot comprehend!

God keeps track of all these humans, some of whom perform mighty deeds, some of whom turn darkly evil, some of whom He converts and saves. He knows them all by name.

I find comfort in knowing it’s not my job to keep track of everyone in the world. In fact, even as a shepherd of the church here in Mandeville, LA, it’s not my job to keep track of everyone in my congregation! I try, but it’s impossible. On Sundays I walk my neighborhood and pray for my congregation by name, and it’s always overwhelming to think of every person with his or her troubles and struggles, because we all have them, and God has not equipped me psychologically, emotionally, or physically to bear the burdens of everyone around me.

Praise God, He does!

However, God has equipped me to fight in my own plot of land. I cannot fight in every plot of land, but I can take my stand in the midst of my own plot and defend it. I can fight beside and for the people to my left and right, front and rear. This is all God has called me to do.

On the one hand, God has called me to fight in His army, and to fight hard. On the other hand, he only expects me to fight the enemies immediately around me. If I make this my focus, I will do well.

If I don’t take up the sword in my own home, I lose. If I don’t engage the enemy in my workplace, I lose. If I don’t fight the spiritual forces of darkness in my own town, I lose. Some people, such as emperors, governors, presidents, etc., can affect the world stage in some ways. But most of us are simply given a plot of land to defend.

There is plenty of fighting to do on my plot of land.

And if I fight hard for Him, I could still be numbered among God’s mighty men.

It seems like life is getting more and more hectic. This world is rushing madly about, busy with things and stuff. 

On the one hand, it's good to be busy. The devil plays around with our leisure time. But on the other hand, the devil also enjoys watching us waste our time and distracting us from things that matter the most.

Praise the super-successful business mogul. Clap for the sports hero. Sigh for the girl singing on the X-Factor.

Shuttle the kids off to school to learn how to write, read, build, and discover. Rush them to band practice, football practice, their first job in the hamburger joint. It's not enough that they get by in life; we want them to thrive, excel, become truly great, leave their mark. So we push.

Why do we push them? Why do we push ourselves? Why do we rush about attempting to achieve great things?

Solomon did exactly this. He holds the world record in the "super-successful" category because he had virtually unlimited resources and a drive to discover, build, and thrive. Solomon diligently searched for thrills, meaning, and happiness—but when he paused to reflect, he realized he had just been grasping at the wind. Frantically, he tried everything he could think of, but nothing truly satisfied. "Vanity," he penned in his journal. "Emptiness. Striving after the wind." 

I have seen all the works that are done under the sun; and indeed, all is vanity and grasping for the wind. (Ecclesiastes 1.14)

And I set my heart to know wisdom and to know madness and folly. I perceived that this also is grasping for the wind. (1.17)

I said in my heart, “Come now, I will test you with mirth; therefore enjoy pleasure”; but surely, this also was vanity. I said of laughter—“Madness!”; and of mirth, “What does it accomplish?” (2.1-2)

Then I looked on all the works that my hands had done
And on the labor in which I had toiled;
And indeed all was vanity and grasping for the wind.
There was no profit under the sun. (2.11)

Therefore I hated life because the work that was done under the sun was distressing to me, for all is vanity and grasping for the wind. (2.17)

Sad man! Because he was wise, he reflected and meditated on his life journey. Many of us don't pause in the hustle and bustle of our days and weeks—we just spin our wheels and never look back. But Solomon looked back, searching for the reason why he had spent his energies and time the way he had. When all was said and done, after he had philosophized for twelve tough chapters, Solomon found his conclusion. Perhaps some would have committed suicide by the time they had meditated on the realities of life the way Solomon did—but Solomon found an anchor, a reason for living:

Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter:
Fear God and keep His commandments,
For this is man’s all.
For God will bring every work into judgment,
Including every secret thing,
Whether good or evil. (12.13-14)

The answer to life is not in discovering your unique passion, becoming top dog in your company, or hoarding boatloads of cash. No, the secret to life's meaning lies in something quite outside this world! Man's duty is to fear God and keep His commandments. If this is our aim, everything we do in life suddenly becomes pregnant with meaning, from the words we use with our families to the business decisions we make at the office. Suddenly every word, thought, and action holds eternal significance because we realize a judgment day is coming in which God will reveal every secret thing! We ought to live in light of eternity, in light of judgment, in light of God. Since He exists and He watches and He commands, we should listen and obey and conform to His way. Imagine that—the creature obeying his Creator. What a concept.

Why rush about? Why achieve things? Why push ourselves? If it's not for God, there is no good reason to do any of it. It is vanity, a grasping after the wind, and it will all disappear in the twinkling of an eye. All this earth stuff will grow old, rust, rot, and perish. So will our bodies. But WITH God there is no such thing as vanity or emptiness! All has meaning. Praise Him!

Warriors harden themselves against the reality of their own imminent death as they take the battlefield. They intend victory, but they understand their own mortality, and if their life should be taken by another warrior, they submit to an honorable death.

But no warrior wants to be killed by someone weaker than he. Recall Abimelech, the bastard king during the time of the judges:

“And Abimelech came to the tower and fought against it and drew near to the door of the tower to burn it with fire. And a certain woman threw an upper millstone on Abimelech’s head and crushed his skull. Then he called quickly to the young man his armor-bearer and said to him, ‘Draw your sword and kill me, lest they say of me, “A woman killed him.”’ And his young man thrust him through, and he died.” (Judges 9.52–54)

Abimelech the warrior didn’t want “A woman killed him” on his gravestone.

A few decades before Abimelech’s death, another warrior died at the hand of a woman:

“But Jael the wife of Heber took a tent peg and took a hammer in her hand. Then she went softly to him and drove the peg into his temple until it went down into the ground while he was lying fast asleep from weariness. So he died.” (Judges 4.21)

Deborah wrote a beautiful song for Israel to sing about this event:

²⁴             “Most blessed of women be Jael,
the wife of Heber the Kenite,
of tent-dwelling women most blessed.

²⁵             He asked for water and she gave him milk;
she brought him curds in a noble’s bowl.

²⁶             She sent her hand to the tent peg
and her right hand to the workmen’s mallet;
she struck Sisera; she crushed his head;
she shattered and pierced his temple.

                ²⁷             Between her feet he sank, he fell, he lay still;
                                between her feet he sank, he fell;
                                where he sank, there he fell—dead.

Now isn’t that lovely? Not for Sisera! What a dishonorable, shameful epithet!

Many Warriors Have Fallen to Women

But many warriors have fallen to women—not so many physically killed, but many have fallen to the wiles and seductions of women.

Samson fell to the wiles of Delilah. Judah trotted along into the house of a prostitute (Tamar). Amnon succumbed to temptation and raped his half-sister.

The greatest warrior of all, King David, fell to a woman who wasn’t even trying to seduce him (as far as we know). He saw her bathing on his neighbor’s roof next door and fell to the temptation.

The wisest of all men fell into idolatry because he “loved many foreign women, along with the daughter of Pharaoh: Moabite, Ammonite, Edomite, Sidonian, and Hittite women, from the nations concerning which the LORD had said to the people of Israel, ‘You shall not enter into marriage with them, neither shall they with you, for surely they will turn away your heart after their gods.’ Solomon clung to these in love” (1 Kings 11.1–2).

Is it any wonder that Solomon wrote Proverbs 1–9 telling his son to flee from the “forbidden woman, from the adulteress with her smooth words” (2.16)? He explains, “for her house sinks down to death, and her paths to the departed; none who go to her come back, nor do they regain the paths of life” (2.18–19). He heaps it on in Proverbs 5–9, especially.

What Is Man’s Defense?

What is a man to do to keep himself from being killed by a woman?

“Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life… Let your eyes look directly forward, and your gaze be straight before you. Ponder the path of your feet; then all your ways will be sure. Do not swerve to the right or to the left; turn your foot away from evil” (Proverbs 4.23–27).

1. SET YOUR HEART towards righteousness before you begin your day. Intentionally decide what kind of person you are going to be today.
2. DON’T GAZE AT A WOMAN. You will see her for sure, but do not let your eyes or your mind dwell on her. Rather, set your gaze straight ahead; don’t get distracted.
3. GO WHERE YOU INTEND. When you find yourself stopping or swerving off your intended path to put yourself in a better place to view a woman, turn your foot away from evil, remind yourself of what you had set your heart to do, and get going.

But let us end on a good note. God created woman to be beautiful and attractive to men. It is no sin to notice that a woman is lovely, and it is no sin to find people attractive; this is a legitimate pleasure God has given mankind—beauty. Godly women are especially beautiful because they shine from the inside out with that gentle and quiet spirit God designed women to have (1 Peter 3.4). Godly women are strong of heart and spirit, and blessed is the man who finds a righteous woman!

“An excellent wife, who can find? She is far more precious than jewels” (Proverbs 31.10). A godly woman will not kill a man; rather, “the heart of her husband trusts in her, and she does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life” (Proverbs 31.11, 12).

Men, don’t give your strength to women (Proverbs 31.3). Don’t be killed by a woman.

Many homes operate from a basis of fear and performance, focusing on right knowledge and right behavior. If that's all we want from our kids (right knowledge and right behavior), perhaps a fear-based or performance-based system is what the doctor ordered.

Often I have discovered the most important thing to me when my kids are with me in public is that they behave correctly—that's my bottom line—because if they don't they might display what a horrible job I'm doing as a parent. If no one acts up in a major way, I chalk it up to success.

But a child can easily perform the right way while his heart remains bound by darkness.

When we think about it, don't we really want kids who desire to obey, who love us, and who demonstrates an inner strength of character which will govern them even as they leave the constant influence of our home's rules? There's the rub, as Shakespeare might say.

How does God parent? How does God deal with us, His sons and daughters? Does He not lead us with copious amounts of grace?

John 1.14 says the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and His glory was "full of grace and truth." Three verses later John compared Moses with Jesus: "For the law was given through Moses, but grace and truth came through Jesus Christ." Jesus did not only embody truth but also grace. When we speak to one another, Paul instructs us to speak the truth in love (Eph. 4.14).

Does that sound like your home? Are you parenting from an attitude of grace and love? Introspectively, I look back and realize I often have not been. Many times I have spoken harshly with my children because they were not following my laws to the standard I'd like. The clothes they hang up in the closets are wonky. They don't fold my socks and...ahem...other things correctly before stuffing them in my drawer. They don't scrape the dishes well enough before putting them in the dishwasher, so we sometimes have to re-wash. They daydream when they're supposed to be doing their school work, and it takes SO MUCH LONGER than it should! They don't answer me back respectfully enough.

I'm not sure I speak the truth in love often enough. I'm not sure my speech is always "what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers" (Eph. 4.29).

As I think of my failings as a parent, I think about how God deals with me IN my failings. Does He speak harshly to me? Does He make my life miserable? Does He constantly remind me I'm a failure, or does He constantly encourage me to do better, assuring me that He still loves me, accepts me, and will not forsake me? The latter is the truth. If God deals with me with such grace, should I not then fill my own home with grace?

¹² Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, ¹³ bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. ¹⁴ And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. ¹⁵ And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful. ¹⁶ Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God. ¹⁷ And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.

Jesus said as he stood before Pilate, "You say that I am a king. For this purpose I was born and for this purpose I have come into the world—to bear witness to the truth. Everyone who is of the truth listens to my voice."

Pilate replied, "What is truth?" And he walked out. John 18.37-38

My generation and the next have abandoned truth. The majority have walked out on Jesus and refuse to listen to Him.

What is truth? Do you know what it is? Do you care to know? Do you believe in truth?

People hate truth. They hate Jesus because He speaks truth. They hate Christians because we teach the truth Jesus taught us.

Truth can hurt. It's like looking in a mirror. Little hairs are growing in places we didn't expect. That mole hasn't shrunk. Our eyes are not quite symmetrical. Our deficiencies and imperfections stare back at us.

Truth hurts because it means there is a right and a wrong. We always want to be right, but Truth intrudes and exposes our biases, our faults, our ignorance. We'd rather remain foolish than be proven wrong.

If you are interested in Truth, you are interested in Facts. You want to know exactly what happened so you can make a proper judgment. People don't seem to care about Facts these days. If a study published by Random University supports your ideas or desires, are you quick to share it? Or do you first research to verify its claims? If someone posts a picture or video on social media which supports your favorite cause or political leaning, are you quick to share? Or do you first double-check sources to make sure you are sharing Facts?

In our highly-polarized political climate, we should exercise extreme caution to speak only facts and truth. Do not share things which you don’t know are true. Especially if someone writes or posts something sensational that gets you fired up, take time to consider before lending your support and passing it along. Is it true? Is it right? Is it helpful?

Jesus stood before Pilate and told him about Truth. Those who love Truth love Jesus. I mean spiritual truth: the Truth of the gospel, the Facts of the Creator, the Reality of King Jesus.

But most join Pilate and walk away scoffing, "What is truth?"

Fact: On the last day, the words Jesus has spoken will judge ALL those who reject Him (John 12.48).

You say, "But I don't believe in Jesus." Your belief doesn't change the Facts. Please understand this vital point. You can believe in Santa Clause, but that doesn't make him exist. You can disbelieve in an objective morality, but that doesn't make it vanish.

You say, "But I don't feel like God exists." Facts don't care about our feelings. Feelings change nothing. You can feel that someone is a murderer and a rapist—that doesn't make it true. You can be a murderer and rapist and feel like you're not guilty of anything—that doesn't justify you.

If you are interested in Truth, search for and examine Facts. Pay close attention to them. Submit to them. Once you discover it, don't lie against the Truth by living contrary to it. The most important Truth everyone on earth needs to discover is that Jesus Christ is the Sovereign Lord. The Truth of His lordship carries eternal consequences.